“Who knows why it’s gotta be this way”

Trying to understand the bigger picture is harder than it seems. In the past, I got so focused, I could only see what was in front of me, so I missed what I needed to see.


Okay, I also ignored what I needed to see too lol. The mind can be so convenient at times.

This is what you came for

Right now, my mind is on top of it because I am getting better at seeing the whole picture.

Music is what feelings sound like

And right now, I understand that I was pretty much an idiot when I was younger, so I can’t blame my young employees for making the same mistakes I did. I wish I could save them.

But such is life eh?

I’m wearing

Outfit: PurpleMoon Creations Still Latex Dress for Maitreya @ Fetish Fair 2016 (open for one more day due to popular demand)
Heels: [Ketamine] Fetish Shoes for Slink @ Fetish Fair 2016 (open for one more day due to popular demand)
Earrings::Dressed By Lexi:: Mystique
Earrings: Ben’s Beauty and Boutique– Polly Earrings
Ring: REIGN.- SAY IT! Knuckle Rings- Diva (previous Arcade item)
Hair: Rezology Silent Lips w/ Lusterlight
Body parts: LAQ Head Trinity, Maitreya Body Lara, and Slink Feet High
Poses: Glitter Poses Model 1 and 5
Location: Radio Geko

Post title pinched from “This is what you came for

Speaking of which…

I used to have an active Second [social] Life. It was loads of fun in the beginning. I call it the SL gloss and that gloss wore out quite some time ago. Teaching was fun. Pretending to be a model was fun too. Isn’t it funny how we can change interests even in our Second Lives?

For instance, now, I log in solely to blog. If my old friends get my autoreply, chances are I really am in Photoshop, or I just don’t have anything to say. Regardless of what I am doing, I let my autoresponse do the talking.
How to be alone

Don’t get me wrong. There are a couple of people I miss chatting to. My old friend Tiff is one. The last time I ‘spoke’ to her, she was choreographing dances, which I think is so fun. You know how I love my animations. Anyway, if I could do that without the actually ‘talking’ to others, I totally would.

I mean, I could choreograph a dance or two and then blog it, but since I only hang out with myself (you’ve met Sunshine and Taco, my real life husband…I took control of his avatar a long time ago), it’s sort of computer intensive lol. I suppose I just wanted to say, if you get my autoresponse, it’s because I’m just here to relax and get away from my real life. Other times, I only have enough charm left at the end of the day for one. 😉

I’m wearing

Legendaire Valentina Dress (Maitreya) and Heels @ Designer Showcase (May’s cycle ends on the 31st)
PurpleMoon Safety Pin Clutch [gold] Black (Former Gift for the Instruments)
Truth Hair Verity
Pose: Manifeste 616
Location: Paris Land

Yeah, I’m sober, sure I’m sane: Still your daughter still the same

If there is any fairy tale character I could really understand, I would have to say it’s Thumbelina. Before I get too deep, it’s due to my size. I swear to my husband that I’m five feet tall and he swears that I’m lying. Okay, so he knows me well but I know how men gauge inches so I thought I was safe! Really, the perfect height for me would be 5′ 4″ so I could wear flats. I can’t complain. Perhaps my mother wished for a tiny little child like Thumbelina’s mother  did?

Were you scared that I might get hurt

In spite of my size, I am the big boss lady at my workplace. I suppose I mastered my everything is okay face because my assistant manager claimed I was her hero due to my ability to handle everything in stride and be pleasant at the same time. Little does she know, but I am far from fine.

I'm losing my mind

She is younger than me, so I’m trying to play the good role model, but sometimes I wonder if it is ever okay to say I don’t give a fuck about your problems because I have my own?  At the same time, I love my life.

And I might be okay. But I'm not fine at all.

It’s really not so bad. Yes, my thoughts are a bit convoluted at times, but that’s the way  I roll and the only way I can fly. ಠ‿↼

I’m wearing:
Picture 1 and 2
:: PurpleMoon :: Thumbelina Gown, Crown, and Wings @ Enchantment Featuring Thumbelina  (May)
#EMPIRE – Erica Flats for Maitreya @ Enchantment Featuring Thumbelina  (May)
.LeLutka.Mesh Head-SIMONE 1.5
Exile Hair::Stone Cold Seduction and Memory Bliss
Poses: (1) **Manifeste** – Model_510 by July Raymaker and (2) Posies-Blender 07 Tall by Anatalia Honi

Picture 3
:: PurpleMoon :: Shabby Dream Dress (May Instruments)
:: PupleMoon :: Thumbelina Wings @ Enchantment Featuring Thumbelina  (May)
Exile Hair::You Send Me
Pose: Le Poppycock *Small Blessings* Small Wonder @ Enchantment Featuring Thumbelina  (May)
REIGN.- Boho Laced Sandals (Maitreya Lara)- Camel @ Collabor88 (May)

Location: Kingdom of Alurel 

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It’s gonna be alright…

…because “I shake it off, I shake it off.” This is kind of embarrassing, but I literally shake my head to clear it off thoughts. I never really noticed it, of course, until my hubby pointed it out. Apparently, I also frown in my sleep. Thanks for letting me know husband. Ah, romance (actually, I think it is totally romantic to notice my subconscious moments). 😉

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The whole point of my post is to point out my jacket, so disregard my ramblings! PurpleMoon Creations has one of the coolest jackets ever available at On9. The Iridescent jacket is materials ready, and I really wasn’t able to notice the real coolness until I logged on using the official SL Viewer. Now, mind you, it may be my graphics card because I am a frequent user of Phoenix and typically see everything I need to and want to.

See the green light in the picture above? It seems materials ready clothing adds the oomph to oh my.

I wore the lights (in my case green and purple) included in the package, but try going outside for a moveable light source to see the effects.

Click here’s your lift to On9.

:: PurpleMoon Creations :: Iridescent Jacket in Pink @ On9
*COCO*_Bustier Dress in White
-David Heather-Headphones/Scripted/F (Pose above) @ The Arcade March
Lamb. Nevermind @ The Arcade March
[Atomic] Skin Gacha // April – Milk – Rose @ The Arcade March
Closed eyes by Boudoir

Location: The Dirty Grind 

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Happy Holidays!

Happy Holidays 2015

I’m wearing:
Dress: Purple Moon Creations – Child’s Wish
Jewelry: (Yummy) Kitschy Holiday Ring – Snowflake (Gold) @ The Arcade December 2015
Hair: Tableau Vivant~ Harukaze
Skin: [theSkinnery] Daisy 11 (champagne) @ The Arcade December 2015
Pose: Repose Present Day 3  @ Winter Gacha Festival (Rare)

Starring my little Holiday pets:
Remarkable Oblivion – Sleigh Bells – Snowflake (Rare) @ The Arcade December 2015
+Half-Deer+ Jackalope – Tip Toe @ The Arcade December 2015
O.M.E.N – Waiting for Santa Paws – Stocking Puppers (Rare), Santa Paws, and  Santa’s Helper @ The Arcade December 2015
The Secret Store – Winter Foxes – Playful / White @ The Arcade December 2015


“My, my, how the seasons go by…”

It’s my second fall in Las Vegas, Nevada. Sorry, I have to clarify the state because I’m from New Mexico. We have a Las Vegas too, but it’s not the glitter and glam of Sin City. Anyway, my first fall here was strange. I wasn’t sure what to expect. Now, I’ve noticed fall/winter wear paired with summer wear, and it’s typically warm on top and cool on the bottom.

My, my, how the seasons go by

Fall fashion has hit SL, but true to my new RL home, I mixed fall and summer. Actually, I did this in New Mexico too. Maybe it’s a desert upbringing? Regardless, PurpleMoon Creations‘ Sola Vest is cozy and chic and is available in a variety of patterns via a HUD, so you can go rawr or snuggly.  You’ll find the Sola Vest at Tres Chic until October 10th.  Click PurpleMoon at Tres Chic for your taxi.


PurpleMoon Creations Sola Vest @ Tres Chic
*COCO* High Waisted Shorts (Ocean), Knee Boots (Dark Brown), and Turtleneck Sweater (Grey/Brown)
PurpleMoon Creations Rubik Purse {Safari}
Maxi Gossamer -Earrings – Keisha
Tableau Vivant \\ Editorial \ Eastern wind – Browns (From September Arcade 2015)
Pose: Del May Slo-mo Girly
Location: Baslilque
Prop: Label Motion‘s Autumn leaves

Post title pinched from Elle King’s “Ex’s & Oh’s”

Live and Let Die

August 22nd brings the most indulgent event of the year. The The Hottie Cooterati Experience revealed, “The Festival of Sin returns with a promise of debauchery in the form of the seven deadliest sins.” While I’ve been known to partake in a sin or two (or three), Greed struck home. Since moving to Las Vegas aka Sin City, sins run abound, but Greed is especially noticeable due to the giant casinos and the sheer amount of cash flow and desperation to hit it big.  I mean…there are slot machines inside Smith’s Grocery Store, CVS, and most gas stations!

Live and Let Die

When you hit the festival, you’ll find that seven neighborhoods symbolize each deadly sin. I actually loved walking around. Wrath was seedy and dirty. See the jail.  Lust was Moulin Rogue style where a newbie avatar dummy propositioned me. Envy reminded me of a white picket fence neighborhood, but the type of neighbors who secretly hate one another. I could go on and on, but you’ll have to see it for yourself. Make sure to hit Greed for the
Gacha machines and gift shop. While we all know Gacha machines are a gamble, the gift store has all kinds of free goodies.

What does it matter to ya?

The Festival of Sin opens tomorrow. Now, if you’re going to sin...you gotta do it well.  Join The Hottie Cooterati Experience group inworld for the 12 pm TP on August 22.  Group members always get first notice for any sponsored events. Live large and have fun. 😉


PurpleMoon Creations: Heather Trousers and Bustier @ Vintage and Cool Fair
FoS’15 // Decoy Fuzzy Dice – Greed Freebie @ Festival of Sin 2015
FoS’15 // Essenz Sunglasses – Greed Freebie @ Festival of Sin 2015
Vanity Hair:So Vain @ Festival of Sin 2015 (Vanity)
[theSkinnery] Simone – Rich Berry @ Collabor88
Pose 1: an lar [poses] The Maven Series – Five (m) @ Festival of Sin 2015 (Envy)
Pose 2: Glitterati Runway Walk
Props: Freebies from FoS’15: Lost Junction Poker Chips Set, Exposeur Shot Glass (24K Gold), Frogstar Shot Glass (Porcelain),  and Haste Shot Glass (Clear)
Craps Table Prop: AOF :: Industries & :: iThos :: Creations
Background: Glitterati Runway and Seven Emporium Casino Marquee (Former Arcade Item)
Firestorm filter: 1970’s Colors
Inspiration and blog title pinched from Paul McCartney’s “Live and Let Die”

Strange you never knew

One of my co-workers said she was always bummed out on sunny days. It threw me for a loop because I’m the exact opposite. Consequently, I tried to find the beauty in a gray sky day. I fell asleep several times, but I think that’s due to me laying in bed watching true crime TV. What did I learn?

Fade into you

Perhaps I have conditioned myself to believe the sun inspires positivity. Because honestly, I’ve had plenty of lazy sunny days.

PurpleMoon Strelitzia in Cream (sleeves and crown included)
cheLLe – Eyeshadow in Dreamy 3
Analog Dog – mouche – light browns
Pose by Vestige
Post title pinched from Mazzy Star’s “Fade into You”

“Catch the wind, see us spin, sail away, leave today, way up high in the sky…”

Oh, I love fantasy fashion in Second Life. In fact, I walked around in Second Life today, while wearing PurpleMoon‘s “A Midsummer Night’s Dream Corset” and an avatar complimented my look! It threw me for a loop. Personally, it’s the total opposite of getting caught shopping in real life because I never look this good in real life. 😉

Catch the wind, see us spin, sail away, leave today, way up high in the sky

PurpleMoon’s “A Midsummer Night’s Dream Corset” is available at The Instruments’ July round and comes in five shades: Pearl, White, Earth, Pink, and Aqua. A Hud drives the wing’s colors so you have the same color options, but you can also change the branches. Ooh, and don’t forget the Titania Sandals! They’re reminiscent of gladiator sandals, but they have a vixen edge.  July’s round at the Instruments ends on August 7th. This ensemble is only available at the Instruments, so click “I love fantasy fashion too” for your lift!

PurpleMoon A Midsummer Night’s Dream Corset in Pearl @ The Instruments Anniversary Round
PurpleMoon Titania Sandals Pearl for Slink Feet High @ The Instruments Anniversary Round
Exile Hair Pick Up Lines
Label Motion Wings Pose 5 @ Wayward Carnival
Location: SaNaRae Heaven Ocean @ Junin

Post title pinched from Led Zeppelin “What is and What Should Never be

Thrill of the Hunt

Easter weekend was a lazy time for me. I left my basket back in Albuquerque, so I decided to celebrate PurpleMoon Creations’ Dress Me Purple II Hunt instead. Tomorrow, April 10, is the last day!


Look for the purple egg and find your treat. Did you know purple is often associated with royalty and power? Thus, all the treats are delicious pieces in all shades of purple. Also, they don’t cost one linden. Free can be both stylish and sexy. Here’s a lift to PurpleMoon.

Happy hunting!


For last minute hunters, here are the rules:

1- This hunt is free and open to public (no group membership required)
2- The object you are looking for is an egg in purple polka dot texture (like the sample pictured in the poster)
3- To receive the gift, simple TOUCH the egg!. You will be given an object that you can WEAR to UNPACK.
4- The eggs are numbered from 1 to 10.
5- There are no hints given. They are easy to find and this is more for the fun of it than anything else. They are only hidden at the GROUND LEVEL of the Main Store, no outdoors or upper level.
6- The balloons decorating the rooms are an indicator that there are purple eggs hidden in that room.




Pose: Glitterati Through Everything
Location: WatchTower