“Running scared, I was there, I remember it all too well…”

Any blogger who does in-world shots knows the risk. By risk, I mean other avatars entering a blogger’s world. Sometimes, it’s harmless. Other times, people behind the keyboard are having a wonderful time jumping or pushing the solitary avatar that looks like she is lost or away from the keyboard. This time, I camera stalked the one-day-old avatar and took a snapshot because for all I know she is new or perhaps she’s having a bad day. I’ve never really photographed others, but it’s the personification of nostalgia, for me. Avatars are not human, but the people who control them are. So, this is for Fiyouna (pictured below). She doesn’t know me, but she virtually touched me.

I'd like to be my old self again, but I'm still trying to find it

When I first set out to blog, I had Memorial Day on my mind. I don’t know anyone who has died in service. As a good American,  I appreciate it. As a person, I wish war wasn’t necessary. I have lost loved ones, and they did not die with honors, but I still take this day to remember them the same.

I remember it all too well

The people I knew were battling their own wars and they lost. Some people say suicide is selfish, but it may not be that simple. In a twisted way, suicidal individuals may feel as  though they are making a difference in their loved ones’ lives and that means letting their loved ones live on in peace. Of course, that does not happen because the living hurt more than the dead, but it’s an idea that haunts me.

Wind in my hair, you were there

Before I get too political or crybaby for my own good (I don’t know enough to really debate about politics; I just run on emotions so you’ve met your match in crybaby territory), I’ll end it on a safe note. For those that I’ve lost and whom others have lost, we remember you all too well and love you. ♥

I can’t say that I love you Fiyouna because I don’t know you, but I want to thank you for bumping into me.

I’m wearing
Blac Label Boutique Siran Cardigan~Peach Limpet @ Designer Showcase (May Round)
Blac Label Boutique Siran Halter and Shorts ~Peach @ Designer Showcase (May Round)
*Nya’s*Jacky-O Flats for Slink @ Designer Showcase (May Round)
Vanity Hair:Miss Fisher-Browns
Pose 2: ASO! Mimosa 5 (Gacha)
Pose 3: Eternal Dream Vicky 01
Location: Everlong 

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Speaking of which…

I used to have an active Second [social] Life. It was loads of fun in the beginning. I call it the SL gloss and that gloss wore out quite some time ago. Teaching was fun. Pretending to be a model was fun too. Isn’t it funny how we can change interests even in our Second Lives?

For instance, now, I log in solely to blog. If my old friends get my autoreply, chances are I really am in Photoshop, or I just don’t have anything to say. Regardless of what I am doing, I let my autoresponse do the talking.
How to be alone

Don’t get me wrong. There are a couple of people I miss chatting to. My old friend Tiff is one. The last time I ‘spoke’ to her, she was choreographing dances, which I think is so fun. You know how I love my animations. Anyway, if I could do that without the actually ‘talking’ to others, I totally would.

I mean, I could choreograph a dance or two and then blog it, but since I only hang out with myself (you’ve met Sunshine and Taco, my real life husband…I took control of his avatar a long time ago), it’s sort of computer intensive lol. I suppose I just wanted to say, if you get my autoresponse, it’s because I’m just here to relax and get away from my real life. Other times, I only have enough charm left at the end of the day for one. 😉

I’m wearing

Legendaire Valentina Dress (Maitreya) and Heels @ Designer Showcase (May’s cycle ends on the 31st)
PurpleMoon Safety Pin Clutch [gold] Black (Former Gift for the Instruments)
Truth Hair Verity
Pose: Manifeste 616
Location: Paris Land

“I’m glad I came here with your pound of flesh…”

Finding a new home is exhausting. While we’re searching, tons of agents have come by to view the property we’re currently renting. I’m so done. As we search for our new home, I have a couple of wants because our current residence leaves a lot to be desired. It is not my husband’s fault, but the present environment has intensified my mood swings. This is my apology lol. =)

DS May

In real life, I only socialize with my husband, but I would like to find a home that motivates us to stay home and enjoy the property. There’s too much to do in Las Vegas and it all costs money. While there are shows to see and restaurants to dine in, there are just as many slot machines one can pour his or her money into. We don’t do that often, but, in retrospect, I could have purchased some amazing shoes in the last 3 months. Tangibility is everything.

Now, speaking of tangibility, don’t forget to stop at Designer Showcase. May is nearly over so tons of goodies at promo prices or exclusive pieces will be gone on the 31st.

Click I love shoes and clothes for your lift to Designer Showcase.

Sunshine is wearing:
Hepburn Rose Dress by More Than Ever @ Designer Showcase 
Slink FEMALE (Av.Enhance) Hands and Feet Alpha
Lindy Bailee Black and Gold @ Designer Showcase 
pr!tty hair- Yeemi

I’m wearing:
[hh] Belize Dress short for MAITREYA @ Designer Showcase 
Amacci Hair – Astra – No Bow
Maxi Gossamer Earrings – Lost Eden – Rebecca – GOLD + OPAL
Maitreya Mesh Body – Feet V3.5
Pure Poison – Elianna Pumps – Maitreya
{NANTRA} Red Wine Glass Copy only

Pose by Exposeur Poison & Wine
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Open House: “I’m useless but not for long.”

Never, ever, do real estate with the seller’s family. My husband and I decided to officially plant roots in Las Vegas by purchasing a house. Husband: Hey, guess what, a co-worker wants to sell her home! Me: Oh wow, what are the odds? Must be a blessing and meant to be! No. That’s not always the case. A few days ago, I sat silently while the real estate licensee (seller’s sister) tried to set up a meeting with my husband. Apparently, my credit hasn’t reached the mark yet, which is totally okay, but it’s like hey I’m still here. Can someone besides my husband acknowledge I’m part of this?

Open House

I will be a first-time home buyer, so I guess that makes me a virgin, but I always imagined real estate agents were equally respectful of both the buyer and the seller. I may be a virgin, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have feelings. 😉 This contract is contingent on our credit, so if this doesn’t pan out, I totally understand. For what it’s worth, I would love to check out empty houses to feel the realtors’ vibes and previous owners’ energy left behind.  Although, open houses do not sound appealing. I imagine the crazy realtor from American Beauty.

Incidentally, Designer Showcase’s April round will actually be a closed house on April 30, so if you haven’t made it by there, check it out. I hear there will be a brand spanking new location. Now, those are positive vibes.

I’m wearing:
Entice – Stars Are Blind Lights w/Necklace for Maitreya @ Designer Showcase
LaGyo_Triple leather bag lime
Lindy Bency Tawny  @ Designer Showcase
*TKW* Bohumila Hair

Sunshine is wearing:
Blac Label Sahara Romper in Peach @ Designer Showcase
Amacci Hair – Mima
Tres Beau “Jemma” Earrings
KC Couture- Sharon Wedges for Slink High @ Designer Showcase

Pose by Glitterati Rust (Freebie!)

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Surprise Me!

Recently, a friend of mine threw a surprise party for her husband but it didn’t have the wow factor she was hoping for. One, they have twins and her husband always brings both babies at the same time. So she had her phone filming discretely and hubby only walks in with one baby. You can hear the wtf in my friend’s voice when she asked where the other baby was. Hubby gets other baby two seconds later…then leaves again to collect the diaper bags.

Surprise Parties

Normally, he brings it all in. Think someone alerted him to the surprise? Methinks yes. The lesson: don’t let too many people in on the surprise! I had a surprise bridal party and it was my first surprise party. I was genuinely surprised, so it honestly made for the best time ever!

Need a fancy party dress? Snowpaws has two delicious pieces at Designer Showcase March. Here’s your lift!

Sunshine is wearing:

Dress: Snowpaws Courant Bow Gown – Pearl @ March Designer Showcase 
Hair: “”D!va”” Hair “Chisa”(Moon stone)
FuLo – “Tina” ring – Ruby
Lazuri Classic Pearls Ring – Left

I’m wearing:

Dress: Snowpaws Au Revoir Red Silk Gown – Sparkle @ March Designer Showcase 
LeLutka Head Simone
Hair: Vanity Hair: Luck be a Lady-Browns
{Reverie} ‘Box of Charms’ – French Heiress Earrings @ March Arcade 2016

Pose and props:
Glitterati “Straight on Til Morning”
Fancy Decor Harpsichord Rare and Parlor Chandelier and Ariskea Dollie Rug @ March Arcade 2016

 

 

Chasing Weiland: “It’s what made you who you were.”

Scott Weiland’s death devastated me. I grew up listening to Stone Temple Pilots. They were my first concert. In many ways, their music shaped the way I hear new music today, and, so often, a song builds my blogs.

I heard “Plush” while driving to work today, and it brought back so many memories. There is the innocent interpretation of “Plush,” and that is merely how the lyrics compel me to sing along. Have you ever heard this song while observing Karaoke? My husband sang it at my work’s holiday bash and it was a favorite!

Where ya going with that mask I found STP

Was it the lyrics that made my co-workers, and myself, sing along? “Where

“Where ya going with that mask I found?”

so much depends on the weatherPerhaps, it is the connotation of trying to hide one’s true self, or one’s actions and motives, that makes others relate? This is me trying to figure myself out. It’s also an ode to my appreciation of Scott Weiland. He shall rest in peace, and I will call it a night and see what tomorrow brings.

I’m wearing loads of stuff from Designer Showcase‘s January Collection (January’s round ends on January 31). Designer Showcase will be on a winter hiatus and close shop for February. So if there is anything you want to grab, do it before 1-31! When Designer Showcase is back up in March, expect a brand new location and feel!

Sunshine is wearing:

Dress: Asteria Style – [Brown] @ Designer Showcase (January)
Jewelry: Tres Beau “Jemma” Earrings @ Designer Showcase (January)
Hair: No Match No Smile @ On9
Skin: .::WoW Skins::. 2016 Rose Milk @ Designer Showcase (January)
Mani/Pedi: DaneMarkZ Ombre (Exclusive Color) @ Designer Showcase (January)
Pose by Label Motion Chloe 4

I’m wearing:

Jewelry: Baubles! by Phe MoonFeatherEarrings (Gold) @ Designer Showcase (January)
Outfit: Sage Ava Dress Coffee and Ava Heels Gold @ Designer Showcase (January)
Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Shocking hair – Browns
Mani/Pedi: DaneMarkZ (Exclusive Color) @ Designer Showcase (January)
Pose by Manifeste
Friend pose by !Bang (Big Deal)

 

Las Vegas Winters (What? No Snow?)

I swear my outfits go through this every winter. I’m a southwestern girl by heart, so my move from Albuquerque to Las Vegas kept me in warm winter weather. The only snow I really see is in Second Life!

Designer Showcase’s December Round has the best of both worlds as there is chic fall weather attire and cozy winter wear to choose from.

Designer Showcase December Collection

Designer Showcase is a monthly fashion event that features 16 and up designers from all over the grid. Some have exclusive pieces specifically designed for Designer Showcase and others have gorgeous ensembles available for discounted prices. You have until December 28! Need a lift? Click here for your ride.

I’m wearing:
Sage – Tanya Jeans and Top in Mustard, Boots and Bracelets in Brown, Sunglasses, and Purse in Blue @ Designer Showcase
Clawtooth Hair – Valerie in Dark Ombre @ December’s Arcade
Pose – Manifeste

Sunshine is wearing:
LAVIAN – Essentials November Rain Jacket and Jeans @ Designer Showcase
Ingenue – Alma Boots in Nutmeg @ December’s Arcade
Tableau Vivant Hair – Starry Night \\ Side tail – Blonds @ December’s Arcade
Pose – Label Motion Gemma

Props – {anc} NO LIMITS.ground and flying doves and old electric pole in natural @ December’s Arcade
Trompe Loeil – Josette Boutique (A Collabor88 Item)

Road Trip

I’m hitting the road! tomorrow! Now, road trips are so much fun in theory, but the drive to Albuquerque isn’t the best. It’ll be good to see my family though, and luckily my husband will drive out. I just have to take care of our two rats (small Chihuahuas). That’s a fair trade. 😀

Road Trip

Speaking of travel, NANTRA’s “Seattle Bound” is available at Designer Showcase’s November round. Six poses and suitcases and totes to boot!

How to pack for cold weather

I wish I could take this much luggage. I always change my mind about what I want to wear once I get to my destination. Be sure to check out Designer Showcase’s November round. It’s in a new location and better than ever! Tons of exclusives such as my thigh high boots by Lindy.

Click here for your lift to Designer Showcase!

I’m wearing:

Ana Markova Blythe Sienna @ Designer Showcase
Lindy Karla Over the Knee Rigged Mesh Boots @ Designer Showcase
Poses by NANTRA “Seattle Bound” @ Designer Showcase
Hair: Exile Lazy Summer Days

Wake me up, when October ends

Actually, I love October because of Halloween, but today did mark one end.

Waking up drowning

Designer Showcase’s October round is done for the month, but it will be back in November! If you recall, Designer Showcase is a monthly fashion event that offers exclusives, group gifts, and a variety of goodies at discounted prices. Plus, November brings a new location. Stay tuned for more.

Until then, happy Second Life living!

Credits:

Outfit: [L]oovus – Suri Sweater in Cadmium (Designer Showcase October 2015)
Acessories: E C R U: “Althea” Bracelet, Ring, and Earrings in Gold; Shakeup! Luna Ring [03]
Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Editorial \ Laying – Ombre (The Arcade September 2015)
Shoes: White Room Couture Exotique Shoe India
Skin: O45 – J’adore Blossom Makeup 5
Pose: Del May “Waking Up Drowning”

Red October

Designer Showcase’s October round ends on the 26th. If you aren’t familiar with Designer Showcase, it’s a monthly fashion event and it definitely caters to fashionistas. Have you had a chance to swing by?

DS October 10

Click here for your taxi. Happy shopping!

Credits:

I’m wearing:
Glitter Sensous dress with beret @ Designer Showcase (Multiple color choices via HUD)
Heels: Lindy Kym in Black @ Designer Showcase
Hair: Clawtooth: That Pretty Lady
Pose: **Manifeste** – Model_539

Sunshine is wearing:
[LG] Boutique- The Lovecats @ Designer Showcase (One of the Designer Showcase Group Gifts!)
Hair: !lamb. Bernice
Heels: [Sheba] Virgo Heels
Pose: Label Motion Ami 4

Backdrop: Rowne.Street Style Star – The City RARE (The Arcade September 2015)